family constellations – Systemic Ritual and Systemic Constellations

The Mother Wound and Its Impact on Romantic Relationships

Why do you keep attracting the same kind of partner?

It often has nothing to do with your partner.
And everything to do with your past.
We don’t just choose a partner.
We unconsciously choose someone who feels familiar.
Someone who mirrors what we know.
Someone who activates what is unresolved.
Often, that leads back to one relationship:

Your relationship with your mother.

Not because she did something wrong —
but because no parent can meet every need.
And what remains unmet…
doesn’t disappear.
It shows up in your relationships.

👉 In expectations
👉 In triggers
👉 In emotional reactions

Awareness is where things begin to shift.
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Healing the Mother Wound: Returning to Yourself

Learn how the mother wound affects your relationships and self-worth—and how to move gently toward healing and inner balance.

The Role of Mothers

The Role of Mothers
For every person, the family of origin plays a fundamental role in their development. At a very basic level, we all have a deep, instinctive need to belong. Our survival depends on being part of a group — a system that protects us, supports us, and allows us to exist.
The first and often most important group we belong to is our family of origin.
Within this family, the mother holds a unique and essential position.
Mother is our first connection to life

This article is about Mother.

FATHERS

This article will explore the archetype Father and the roles connected to that archetype. You will also learn about some basic dynamics found in the practice of Family Constellations and how Systemic Ritual can help to heal the wounds of a rejected father.

Empower Yourself: Connecting with Strength-Giving Ancestors

This blog contains valuable insights into the influence of ancestral connections and the potential for healing through systemic ritual and family constellations. The blog highlights the impact of both empowering and distressing ancestral ties.

Multiple souls

Photo:Design: Alma MekkingPaintings by: David Ridley Every culture and religion believes in a concept of the soul or whatever it is called. There is a belief that we are more than our body and that we also have a soul, which continues after the body’s death and returns to where it once came from.In shamanisticContinue reading “Multiple souls”

What is the effect of a family constellation?

What effect can a family constellation have on you as a participant? I will tell you more about it in this blog so that you can participate – well prepared – in a family constellation.

What (or who) is a representative, and what is its role during a family constellation?

I explained in my previous blog how a family constellation works: a participant (also known as a client) brings in an issue about which he or she wants to gain clarity. Based on that question, a facilitator gets to work during a family constellation. The representative is an important part of this process, and I will tell you more about that in this blog.

How does a family constellation work?

In March, you could already read about family constellations and what they are exactly. In that blog, you read that a family constellation is a therapeutic session in which a participant brings in an issue that he or she wants to gain clarity about. Today I will tell you more about how a family constellation works

What are Family Constellations?

Over the past months, I have already shared a lot about family constellations and Systemic Ritual. In this blog, it is time to find out what family constellations actually are and where this form of alternative psychotherapy comes from. I will go into more detail on this in the coming months.