Tag Archives: relationships

The Mother Wound and Its Impact on Romantic Relationships

Why do you keep attracting the same kind of partner?

It often has nothing to do with your partner.
And everything to do with your past.
We don’t just choose a partner.
We unconsciously choose someone who feels familiar.
Someone who mirrors what we know.
Someone who activates what is unresolved.
Often, that leads back to one relationship:

Your relationship with your mother.

Not because she did something wrong —
but because no parent can meet every need.
And what remains unmet…
doesn’t disappear.
It shows up in your relationships.

👉 In expectations
👉 In triggers
👉 In emotional reactions

Awareness is where things begin to shift.
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The Role of Mothers

The Role of Mothers
For every person, the family of origin plays a fundamental role in their development. At a very basic level, we all have a deep, instinctive need to belong. Our survival depends on being part of a group — a system that protects us, supports us, and allows us to exist.
The first and often most important group we belong to is our family of origin.
Within this family, the mother holds a unique and essential position.
Mother is our first connection to life

This article is about Mother.

Epstein, You and Me: On the Masculine and the Feminine

When we hear the name Jeffrey Epstein, we think of abuse, power, corruption and moral decay. Of a man who was able to exploit young girls for years while a network of influential people looked away. Of elites protecting one another. Of a system that failed.

Jeffrey Epstein is dead.
But the dynamics that enabled him are still alive.

How does a family constellation work?

In March, you could already read about family constellations and what they are exactly. In that blog, you read that a family constellation is a therapeutic session in which a participant brings in an issue that he or she wants to gain clarity about. Today I will tell you more about how a family constellation works

What are Family Constellations?

Over the past months, I have already shared a lot about family constellations and Systemic Ritual. In this blog, it is time to find out what family constellations actually are and where this form of alternative psychotherapy comes from. I will go into more detail on this in the coming months.

What is the impact of the family of origin on your relationships?

In previous blogs, I described situations in current relationships and from previous relationships that impact your current relationship. Today I will discuss the last part: what happened in the family of origin that affects the current situation?

The negative impact of previous relationships on your current relationship

In this blog, you will read about the impact of previous relationships on your existing relationship. How can a previous relationship impact your current relationship? About: unfinished separation, and the impact on descendants.

Events that have an impact on your relationship – Part 2

In the previous blog, I wrote about balance and disbalance in relationships and what impact this has on a relationship. It is about giving and taking, but what if one person gives much more than the other? I’ll tell you more in this blog by describing situations that impact the current relationship if nobody pays attention to it.

Events that have an impact on your relationship – Part 1

Various events that happen while being in a relationship have an impact on that relationship. This can be an affair, the loss of a job, the passing of one of the parents, or a disbalance in giving and taking. In the following few blogs, I’ll tell you everything about the different levels of impact. Today I’ll describe the first level: what happened in the current relationship that didn’t get any attention?